Abused by ex-husband, woman leaves again

It took me a decade to realise how dangerously abusive, toxic, and manipulative he was. I had been loyal to a dream turned nightmare: my ex-husband. And I made myself vulnerable again for the sake of my child, who doesn’t appreciate the danger I faced so that she could be with her dad.  I never… Continue reading Abused by ex-husband, woman leaves again

Pregnant woman almost has a miscarriage because of libidinous & controlling husband

It was summer. My husband and I were on holidays. He had decided everything about our trip without asking me even one single time if I liked his choices. We ended up in a campsite in the mountains. I was cold. The road had been absolutely terrifying. But there had been one good thing: food.… Continue reading Pregnant woman almost has a miscarriage because of libidinous & controlling husband

Husband goes out at night and disappoints wife… wait for it.

Being a young expatriated mother was a challenge. I was breastfeeding, day and night. The baby was always hungry. I was exhausted, dragging my poor post-partum body around he house. The stitching scars were aching, my breast was sore and leaking. I barely had the time to shower. Every time I would put the baby… Continue reading Husband goes out at night and disappoints wife… wait for it.

Disgusting boyfriend treats injured girlfriend like a sex doll 

Once upon a time, I had a boyfriend who could only think of sex. To him, I was nothing more than a convenient sex doll who came with perks such as free food, free rent, cable TV, and internet. I had always known that my boyfriend had a deep interest in sexuality, because I had… Continue reading Disgusting boyfriend treats injured girlfriend like a sex doll 

An urgent proposal might be the sign of future abuse

We had not been dating for long, that is to say one daytime date and one sleepover, when my boyfriend asked me to marry him. Actually he asked many times. The first time, he called my mobile in the middle of the night. I had it on voice mail. The next morning I heard him,… Continue reading An urgent proposal might be the sign of future abuse

Best dating is not dating – find true love with self-actualised people

I have never been into dating. At all. I understand that these are socially-constructed rituals that are supposed to lead to mating. I am not interested in encountering stereotypes. I have been yearning for a self-actualised person all my life. Self-actualised people are the best, because with them you will never have to date and play social games. Self-actualised… Continue reading Best dating is not dating – find true love with self-actualised people